A restraining order isn't only for someone standing on your porch. In California it can reach the person flooding your phone, your inbox, and your tags.
Ava:
Michael, people picture restraining orders as a physical-distance thing — stay 100 yards away. But so much harassment now happens through a screen. Can an order actually cover that?
Michael Benavides, Esq.:
Yes — and this surprises people. California restraining orders can specifically prohibit contact "directly or indirectly, by any means," which includes calls, texts, email, DMs, posting about you, and using third parties to reach you. The screen doesn't create a loophole.
Two doors — pick the right one
Ava:
So the relationship decides the door.
Michael Benavides, Esq.:
Right — and both can be requested on an emergency basis, giving you temporary protection within days while the court sets a full hearing.
What makes a strong request
Ava:
And once it's granted, breaking it isn't just rude — it's an arrestable violation.
Michael Benavides, Esq.:
Correct. That's the power of it: after the order, the next unwanted message can carry criminal consequences.
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